Promises are crucial, trust me.

People often make promises all over the world. But, how often do they actually fulfill their promises ? That’s the problem here.


For the past months, I have been dealing with friends who complain about friends that break promises, children who are mad at their parents for not doing what they have promised, girlfriend/boyfriend who break promises and so forth. Honest speaking, I am also one of them who break promises easily. But what’s the BIG deal once you’ve made a promise ?


The BIG deal is, people trusted us for making a promise. And, if you don’t do what you promise, damn, you’re busted. People just won’t trust you anymore. You can do it once, twice, but not the third time. Ask yourself, how often do you fulfill your promises ?


Parents are one of the bad examples for breaking promises to their kids. My parents, are one of them too. It feel really suck when your parents promise you to get you something you really longed for it. And one day, BOOM ! They just tell you, ” Girl, mummy/ daddy don’t have money now. Next time kay ? Mummy/Daddy promise, next time will buy for you.” *smile widely* Pfft. That really, really sucks.

Or they could even say ” Lets go for a holiday this weekend, kids ! Where do you guys wanna go ? ” and we go, ” Yay ! Lets go Genting, very long didn’t go ady !!! *sounds really excited* , ” Okay ! ” .. Few hours later, someone calls Mummy/Daddy. ” Kids, Daddy have work this weekend, so we can’t go Genting already. Next time kay ! “ *smiles sgain*


Kids are very particular on what parents have promised them. So parents, do not ever, EVER make empty promises to your kids. Because kids can be haunting you for what you have promised them. And when you break them, your kids will be superb disappointed at you. And they will not trust you anymore. The next time you say you’re buying them a PSP, they’ll go ” Yea..right. “ This is what you’re gonna be facing throughout your life. Do you want that ? I doubt so. So make a change now, parents.

 Promises made between couples is also a crucial matter these days. Do you see couples quarelling over small things everywhere ? Yes, I’m one of them. No matter the promise is MASSIVE or tiny, everything counts. When you’re in a relationship, obviously, you really care for each other. Every damn thing of them matters to you. Unless you don’t love your partner They became related to you somehow, just like parents and kids. You’re the special someone to your partner, naturally, they’ll have trust in you. And when you make a promise, FULFILL them ! Do not break them, cause you”ll eventually break their hearts too. Trust me, I have experienced this gazillion times in my life. I feel really bad for breaking the promises I did to my boyfriend, cause he will look really disappointed. That’s when I know, I’ve hurt him badly.


So I constantly tell myself, do not repeat this same silly mistake because this will not make the best out of yourself but will only hurt the one that matters a lot to you. Trust me ,


In order to live a happy life with your family, friends, and even your partners. Just remember to do what you have promised, and never let them down.


Ameego !